Please Note: Although I do generally friend people who friend me first, if you use words like "bitch", "cunt", "gay" (the derogatory usage), "lame", "retard", or any other bigoted slur chances are I will not friend you back. If you do end up on my friendslist for any amount of time and I see that kind of language being used, there is a chance I will comment and tell you that it makes me uncomfortable. At that point it's your right to disagree and/or defriend me, but if you are the kind of person who doesn't appreciate being called out on that kind of language then it's probably easier if you don't friend me in the first place.